Going through a break up is a tough time for most people and it can be a very depressing time. If you think that there is still hope for you relationship you should do everything you can to get it going again as moving on is very difficult.

One of the main reasons why it can be hard to move on is because you’re scared of change. Changing may be very hard indeed as you will have got used to your ex and doing the same things all the time.

There is also another fear that some people have and that is they don’t want to be alone. It is easy to feel like it is the end of the world and that you will never find love again when someone leaves you. People are therefore more likely not to end bad relationships just because they don’t want to be alone.

Loneliness is another common reason why people can’t let go of their ex, they enjoy the closeness that a relationship brings only to have it taken away from them. During the period they recover from their ex they will not experience this closeness and if they don’t have a group of friends things will become even more lonely.

If all of the feelings I have described above are relevant to you, then I suggest that you should take some actions to try and get your ex back. If you think there is a chance that everything will work out, then trying to get your ex back is sometimes the right path to take it really can work out.

It will be time to let it go however if your ex has told you they don’t want anything to do with you anymore and is getting on with their life. Constantly pestering them and asking them to take you back is only going to make things tougher for you. Try visiting get your ex back tips and this will give you a bit of info on how to sort things out with your ex.

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