For many people, the days following a breakup feel kind of hopeless. As time goes by and you see no changes in how you feel about your ex or how your ex responds to you, what little bit of hope you did have begins to fade.

How to Get Your Ex Back?

Unfortunately, for some people this is when acts of desperation begin to take place. These acts often push the other person farther away instead of bringing the couple closer together.

What are some of these desperate acts that drive a wedge deeper into the heart of the relationship?

• Hang Up Calls
• Begging
• Badgering
• Stalking
• Cyber-stalking
• Causing Scenes in Public
• Text Message Overload

There are other things that are done out of sheer desperation to save the relationship and try to recover some of what was lost, but you get the general picture.

Finding Hope When it Seems Hopeless

The biggest problem is losing hope. It’s hard to hang onto hope when the love of your life has just told you that it’s over. Your dreams for the future, the plans you made together, the hopes you had for a good life together have suddenly been taken away from you in the space of a heartbeat.

It’s understandable to feel a little angry and a lot sad. You feel hopeless more than anything else. And that’s not something most people like to feel.

But, how do you find hope at a time like this?

Work on Having a Positive Attitude

The more you look for good things to happen the more likely you will be to find them. It’s true. Negative outlooks and pessimistic attitudes often become self-fulfilling prophecies of sorts. The same can be said of positive outlooks and optimistic attitudes.

It may take a little time and effort to overcome the ‘Sad Sack’ attitude of life. But once you do, you’ll discover that the world is a different place that is filled with hope.

Decide What You Really Want

The biggest part of the hopelessness that happens after a breakup is the loss of a dream. You thought you had your future fairly well mapped out ahead of you. Suddenly it was yanked out from beneath your feet. Now you have to figure out what YOU want for the future now that the outlook has changed. Sometimes, the only thing you want is to get your ex back.

If you really want to have hope about the possibility of working things out with your ex, there’s only one thing left to do. Start today making plans to make that happen.

The first thing you need to do, before you do one ounce of planning, is watch this FREE video -> http://magicofmakingup.com/. It will give you the very same opening move that has been instrumental in helping more than 50,000 couples around the world work out their difference. Try it today and see if this is the plan that will help you get your ex back!

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