You’ve probably been thinking about just how much you want to get your boyfriend back since he dumped you. That’s a perfectly normal place to be at a time like this’I want to get my Breakup Reversedboyfriend back!’ It’s normal to feel this way in the days following your breakup.

The problem is that you have no idea where to start trying to get him back. This isn’t something that is taught in Relationship 101. It’s not something most people like to think about at all, much less discuss. But knowing the right moves to make right now can make all the difference in the world as to whether you’re able to successfully get your boyfriend back or not.

Getting Started

The first thing you need to do is call off all current efforts to get his attention. Stop showing up in all the places he’s hanging out. Stop chatting up his friends. Don’t drive by his house or his office. In fact, now is a good time to go out of your way to avoid him.

Don’t go where he is likely to be and stop going to a lot of the places you were likely to be in the past. Find a new coffee shop, banking branch, and dry cleaner. This will decrease the odds of accidentally bumping into each other.

Why so Absent?

There are many reasons for this. One, if you’re not bumping into each other, he can’t accuse you of bumping into one another on purpose. Two, if you aren’t accidentally encountering him you can protect your heart from that sucker-punched feeling you get when he catches you off guard. Three, you’re going to be on his mind a LOT more if you’re out of sight than you will be if he’s always bumping into you.

You WANT to be on his mind. As time goes on, the more he thinks about you the more likely it is that he’s going to start to remember the good times you had together and the good feelings you caused in him.

Love doesn’t simply vanish or evaporate overnight. Even though he broke up with you he probably still has deep feelings for you.

Making Your Move

When the time comes, and it eventually will, your move needs to be one he won’t see coming. That’s why the second chance letter is so effective. It’s unexpected.

What is it?

The second chance letter is a letter you write your boyfriend, when the time is right, to thank him for what he’s meant to you and to agree for all the reasons he stated for breaking up.

It will get his attention in many ways. First, because it’s hand-written. Second, because you’re going to send it in the mail. Last, but certainly not least, because you’re AGREEING with him. How often did that happen while you were together?

But there are a few key elements you need to know BEFORE you write this important letter. Watch this FREE video -> to learn more and see for yourself why this letter has been instrumental in helping couples in over 77 countries get back together. If it’s helped so many it can probably help you get your boyfriend back too.

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