Sometimes, it’s hard to put the past behind you even when things are going well.. When your relationship is on the line however it can be extremely ‘trying’ to do. It’s even harder though when the people who claim to know and love you best seem to be contriving to come between you and the man or woman you’re madly in love with.

Friends and family mean well but they can be bad news for relationships if you don’t keep the lines between concern for you and taking things to far clearly in place. That’s one reason why it’s a goodGet Your Ex Back idea not to air every grievance with your friends and family members. You may forgive your partner for his or her sins against you. That doesn’t mean that the other people in your life who love you and don’t want to see you hurt are going to be quick to do the same.

So, what do you do when you want to work things out but everyone else keeps butting in and causing problems between the two of you?

Take a Little Time Away from Everyone

This is the ideal time to go on a trip out of town together. Whether you go the frugal route and try camping or some other inexpensive trip somewhat close to home or go all out for a romantic cruise, the point is to put some distance between the two of you and the people who are causing problems in your relationship.

Not only will the distance from outside influences do the two of you a lot of good but it will also allow you the perfect opportunity to start making new memories and looking forward to the future. There’s no better way to put the past behind you than to fill your life with so many wonderful thoughts, dreams, and plans (that you make together) for the future.

Sit Down with Your Friends and Family as a Couple and Lay Down the Law

Sometimes, there’s really only one option. You have to provide a united front and kindly but firmly tell everyone that you’re working on your relationship problems and would appreciate support. They can have their opinions. They are welcome to them but if they continue to share them with you – uninvited – then they will not be welcome in your home or your life.

It might sound drastic but it’s sometimes necessary to take drastic action when your relationship is on the line – especially if it’s a long-term relationship or marriage that’s at risk.

It might not feel like the easiest thing in the world to do when you’re feeling so down by all the negative energy, comments, and judgments against your efforts to work things about and put the past behind you. But, once you take matters into your own hands and watch this informative video you will not only know how to get your ex back but also how to keep your relationship on track in the future.

Enhanced by Zemanta

Tagged with:

Filed under: get your ex backrelationship

Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!