There’s something about the word ‘divorce’ that makes it seem so final.. It sounds like a line in the sand that can’t be crossed without disastrous results. But, in all honesty, it’s just a word. It’s a word that has the power or potential to be devastating to lives and families but it’s still just a word. It’s meaning only matters to the degree that we allow it to matter in our lives. If you want to get your ex back, one little word like ‘divorce’ shouldn’t stop you in your tracks.

In some marriages, divorce may really be the end. Both people are really willing to walk away and sacrifice the years, blood, sweat, and tears they spent trying to build their families. It doesn’t mean they’re bad people or that you’re better than them or worse. It just is a difference you need to understand.

Most people who go through a divorce stick it out. There are a few exceptions though and you can be one of those exceptions if you’re willing to do whatever it takes to save your marriage – even though you’ve already been divorced.

The good news for you, if there is anything that can remotely be considered good news, is that you already know the way to the heart of your ex. You’ve won that heart before. Now you just have to unlock the secret for keeping the owner of that heart happy with the relationship.

But before you go and load up on the corny jokes, one-liners, and romantic gestures that won the heart of your ex the first time around there are a few quick things you need to settle at home first.

1) Find out what was missing or went wrong in the relationship. Dig deep if you must but you need to know the real reason behind your spouse’s unhappiness with the marriage. Solve the problem BEFORE you take one step in the direction of trying to get your ex back.

2) Discover what it will take to make your spouse happy this time around. Was something missing in the marriage? Was there just not enough of something you offered? What was it that your ex wasn’t getting enough of to be happy? Make a commitment to yourself to give your ex whatever it was he or she wasn’t getting before.

3) Learn to ask for help and whatever it will take to keep you happy in the relationship too. Everyone has needs and no one in the relationship is a mind reader. You both need to talk to one another about what your needs are. Otherwise they aren’t going to get met.

Divorce is never the absolute ending of a relationship. You both have to decide to walk away and let it die for it to truly end. If you’re not ready, there are plans you can follow that will help you save your marriage. The FIRST step you need to take is to watch this FREE video on how to get your ex back. The information in this video can literally change your life. It has for more than 50,000 couples already. Aren’t you ready to see what it can do for you?

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